there are times when you have to change. things around you force that you happen. some changes you want to control and you can control them but that may not be the best solution. letting go of control is a hard thing to learn. to think you could have prevented something but you did not because this time the best thing to do is to just let go... but the idea still swirls in your head.
"what if..."

other ideas: the worth of honesty in today's society. how much is it really worth? if telling the truth only gets you into trouble why tell it? Why does society encourage lying?